Hope not many such grassroots volunteer around

A former customer service officer was jailed for 30 months on Tuesday for having sex with a 15-year-old girl.

According to The Straits Times, Chee Wei Tong, 24, who faced 10 charges, had admitted to three counts of underage sex at his Kang Ching Road flat and at a staircase landing of an HDB block in August 2012.

Chee, who was a grassroots volunteer at Punggol 21 community centre, is the fourth man to have been convicted and jailed for having sex with the girl.

His sentence is the stiffest to date.

The court heard that Chee came to know the girl in mid-2012 when she created an account on OkCupid, a dating and social networking website.

In the course of texting, she told him she was only 15 years old.

He told her that he had a girlfriend and practised polyamory - the philosophy of being romantically involved with multiple individuals at the same time.

He also told her that he had a fetish for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism, and encouraged the girl, then a virgin, to read up on this group of erotic practices, called BDSM in short.

She complied. The girl turned up at his home on Aug 1, 2012 when he had sex with her for the first time.

He also had kinky sex with her by slapping her face and buttocks a number of times and choking her lightly.

During the second week, she went to his home where she performed oral sex on him.

They met a third and final time between end-August and early September the same year when he took her to an HDB block in Punggol for sexual activities.

District Judge Hamidah Ibrahim noted that the girl went on to have sex with four other men after Chee.

She agreed with the prosecution that Chee had morally corrupted the girl. She also agreed with the prosecution that there had been aggravating factors.

Deputy Public Prosecutor Sharmila Sripathy-Shanaz had said Chee treated the minor as a sexual plaything and had to be held accountable for his base, irresponsible and illicit actions.

Chee, who is married, could have been jailed for up to 10 years and/or fined on each charge of having sex with a person aged below 16 years old.

http://singaporeseen.stomp.com.sg/singap...th-girl-15

Not surprising at all. Its not about grassroot volunteer. Many Grassroot volunteer do it because they want their children to get better access to certain schools. They are also given free parking near their HDB estates. Not many joined because they want to serve their country. Even our politicians I believe most joined because of something instead of truly want to serve this country.

(16-04-2014, 05:48 PM)Bibi Wrote: Not surprising at all. Its not about grassroot volunteer. Many Grassroot volunteer do it because they want their children to get better access to certain schools. They are also given free parking near their HDB estates. Not many joined because they want to serve their country. Even our politicians I believe most joined because of something instead of truly want to serve this country.

If they join private sector , they will be paid many times more than they serve their country, it is a big sacrifice to them. They are very great , we owe them a lot.

(16-04-2014, 05:57 PM)cfa Wrote:

(16-04-2014, 05:48 PM)Bibi Wrote: Not surprising at all. Its not about grassroot volunteer. Many Grassroot volunteer do it because they want their children to get better access to certain schools. They are also given free parking near their HDB estates. Not many joined because they want to serve their country. Even our politicians I believe most joined because of something instead of truly want to serve this country.

If they join private sector , they will be paid many times more than they serve their country, it is a big sacrifice to them. They are very great , we owe them a lot.

Well u have yr views and I have mind. Since this place is about GDP, I would rather half of them go private sector to help boost Spore GDP.

(16-04-2014, 06:18 PM)Bibi Wrote:

(16-04-2014, 05:57 PM)cfa Wrote:

(16-04-2014, 05:48 PM)Bibi Wrote: Not surprising at all. Its not about grassroot volunteer. Many Grassroot volunteer do it because they want their children to get better access to certain schools. They are also given free parking near their HDB estates. Not many joined because they want to serve their country. Even our politicians I believe most joined because of something instead of truly want to serve this country.

If they join private sector , they will be paid many times more than they serve their country, it is a big sacrifice to them. They are very great , we owe them a lot.

Well u have yr views and I have mind. Since this place is about GDP, I would rather half of them go private sector to help boost Spore GDP.

Many of them after their big sacrifice, what private sectors or MNCs they actually go to ?
If that guy was not caught, he could get his PBM few years later.

(16-04-2014, 06:22 PM)cfa Wrote: Many of them after their big sacrifice, what private sectors or MNCs they actually go to ?
If that guy was not caught, he could get his PBM few years later.

From Wikipedia,
George Yeo: Yeo joined the Kuok Group as Senior Advisor, and vice chairman of its subsidiary Kerry Group (HK) Pte Ltd in January 2012.[12]

In August 2012, he became chairman of Kerry Logistics Network.[13] He has since been based in both Singapore and Hong Kong.

Lim Hwee Hua: In July 2011, Lim was appointed as a non-executive director at Jardine Cycle & Carriage.[5] In October 2011, Lim was appointed a Senior Advisor at the global investment firm Kohlberg Kravis Roberts (KKR).[6] In November 2011, Lim was appointed an independent non-executive director on Ernst & Young's Global Advisory Council.[7]

Its good they are contributing to Spore economy. It will be better if they start up their own business

Back to topic on online/offline sex predators.

I think online sex predators existed when people started communicating with each other via modems.

Back when I was a teenager back in 1980s, I encountered what I would think now as a sex predator.
I playing with modems and BBS (Fidonet, RBBS etc). Then I got in contact with the older man to chat
about games or something else. Somehow, the topic started talking about sex...I think it creeps me out.
I avoided his calls. Thank God I did not fall prey to him.

Then another offline encounter. I was at Funan buying some stuff. Then this fat teenager stopped me and
wanted me to bully or exhorted me. Then he flashed his 'Boys Town' badge trying to BS me that he has some
authority. Thank God, I walked away and he never followed me.

It has ALWAYS been dangerous world out there for children and teens. Still give me the creeps when I think of these encounters.

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2014-04-15...fight.html

These have kept parents on their toe, especially those with daughter...

(17-04-2014, 08:51 AM)opmi Wrote: Back to topic on online/offline sex predators.

I think online sex predators existed when people started communicating with each other via modems.

Back when I was a teenager back in 1980s, I encountered what I would think now as a sex predator.
I playing with modems and BBS (Fidonet, RBBS etc). Then I got in contact with the older man to chat
about games or something else. Somehow, the topic started talking about sex...I think it creeps me out.
I avoided his calls. Thank God I did not fall prey to him.

Then another offline encounter. I was at Funan buying some stuff. Then this fat teenager stopped me and
wanted me to bully or exhorted me. Then he flashed his 'Boys Town' badge trying to BS me that he has some
authority. Thank God, I walked away and he never followed me.

It has ALWAYS been dangerous world out there for children and teens. Still give me the creeps when I think of these encounters.

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2014-04-15...fight.html

Boys are more at risks, given parents' complacency.

(17-04-2014, 09:29 AM)CityFarmer Wrote: These have kept parents on their toe, especially those with daughter...

(17-04-2014, 08:51 AM)opmi Wrote: Back to topic on online/offline sex predators.

I think online sex predators existed when people started communicating with each other via modems.

Back when I was a teenager back in 1980s, I encountered what I would think now as a sex predator.
I playing with modems and BBS (Fidonet, RBBS etc). Then I got in contact with the older man to chat
about games or something else. Somehow, the topic started talking about sex...I think it creeps me out.
I avoided his calls. Thank God I did not fall prey to him.

Then another offline encounter. I was at Funan buying some stuff. Then this fat teenager stopped me and
wanted me to bully or exhorted me. Then he flashed his 'Boys Town' badge trying to BS me that he has some
authority. Thank God, I walked away and he never followed me.

It has ALWAYS been dangerous world out there for children and teens. Still give me the creeps when I think of these encounters.

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2014-04-15...fight.html

(17-04-2014, 09:35 AM)opmi Wrote: Boys are more at risks, given parents' complacency.

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These have kept parents on their toe, especially those with daughter...

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Back to topic on online/offline sex predators.

I think online sex predators existed when people started communicating with each other via modems.

Back when I was a teenager back in 1980s, I encountered what I would think now as a sex predator.
I playing with modems and BBS (Fidonet, RBBS etc). Then I got in contact with the older man to chat
about games or something else. Somehow, the topic started talking about sex...I think it creeps me out.
I avoided his calls. Thank God I did not fall prey to him.

Then another offline encounter. I was at Funan buying some stuff. Then this fat teenager stopped me and
wanted me to bully or exhorted me. Then he flashed his 'Boys Town' badge trying to BS me that he has some
authority. Thank God, I walked away and he never followed me.

It has ALWAYS been dangerous world out there for children and teens. Still give me the creeps when I think of these encounters.

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/2014-04-15...fight.html

Since day one, when does the World has changed regarding SEX?
Sex is a kind of "mystery" to me. Have you heard of the "Black Widow" and many more the same behaviour for the animals & insects World.

But come to SEX for human beings. are we that different from the animals & insects World?
Sometimes i think we are even worse.
We can have a SEX perverted mind.
Can the animals & insects have the same perverted minds?
Maybe.
Like the Black Widow,ya!
Build-in by nature, can she act differently?

Watch out!
SEX is a mystery ( at least to me).